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Sunday morning about 1960 |
Another part of my religious
upbringing seems to be missing, especially in politics—a regard for decent,
respectable behavior toward others, even those with whom we
disagree.
My parents and church taught me to respect the Ten Commandments, including do not kill, cheat, lie, covet, and steal, and to honor the Golden Rule: “Do to others as you would have them do to
you.” If we kids got caught cheating, lying, or
bullying, we were scolded, spanked, and sent to our rooms. As a
child, I naively thought all adults learned these lessons and they would never
surrender to bad behavior. But, of course, I was wrong and now
I get daily reminders of how wrong I was.
None of us is perfect,
even if we sit in a church pew on Sunday morning, but I'd like to see our
leaders try harder to respectfully disagree with their political opponents without name-calling, without shouting over one another.
Lately (October 2018), a 24-hour news cycle
exposes politicians or leaders flaunting “alternative truth” messages or
admiring, even advocating, vocal and physical violence toward
others. Bad behavior makes headlines and it seems the media
and politicians feed on one another in a dizzying assault on our good nature.
I’ve
grown grumpy. I desire a return to “old-time” virtue and ethical living that my preacher daddy taught me around the kitchen table and from the pulpit.
My dad and I
are often not on the same page politically, but we refuse to let our differences
put a wedge in our father-daughter relationship. I credit our bond
to love and a strong ethical foundation based on respect for others, learned from
grandparents, parents, and old-time religion.
--- C. Burr
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